6 Ways to Make it Last Longer in Bed
There’s a difference between full-blown sex and a quickie. A few tips to enjoy the former in all its mind-blowing glory.
A few kisses and caresses, some oral action in various erogenous zones... has foreplay been getting boringly predictable? If your pre-sex moves can anticipated, it’s not a good sign. Take your partner by surprise... try something new (for example, suck his toes or caress him with a feather), or simply change the order of foreplay activities.
Taking charge in the bedroom can be a huge rush. For you, as well as for him. You don’t have to be a whip-wielding, leather-sporting dominatrix for this, of course. Simply tell him what to do, to himself and to you. And what not to do until you “allow” him to. Grrr!
A new position (that doesn’t require you to be a contortionist), new bedroom accessories (the likes of sex-compatible food, sensuous music or some naughty toys) or a new bedroom buddy (the human kind)... here are a few more tips.
Taking charge in the bedroom can be a huge rush. For you, as well as for him. You don’t have to be a whip-wielding, leather-sporting dominatrix for this, of course. Simply tell him what to do, to himself and to you. And what not to do until you “allow” him to. Grrr!
And then, there’s always the classic start-and-stop technique to fall back on. This is mainly about the man controlling his urge to come. Just when he’s nearing the pinnacle of pleasure, he abruptly stops/slows down and starts from scratch. It could take a while for your bodies to get used to the start-and-stop rhythm. 
Be it sweet nothings or dirrrrty, nasty somethings, a little talk between the sheets can be sensuous fun. Start with ”innocent” remarks about how hot and desirable he is, how you would like to devour him, throw around a few sex terms and allude to some naughty things you would you would like to try.
Falling asleep right after sex all the time is a huge post-coital turn-off. Your partner isn’t a sleeping pill. You’ve just shared something beautiful; why not prolong the pleasure a little by indulging in a few kisses, caresses and whispers?
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